About Me
In 2015, one conversation changed everything.
What started as an evening of orgasmic meditation turned into a moment of reckoning—a woman sharing her truth cracked something open in me. I realized just how much pain people carry silently. That night awakened the compassionate watcher in me. The kind who holds space when the truth gets heavy. The kind who learns to listen.
Since then, I’ve devoted my life to the erotic as a path to healing. Yes, I have a Ph.D. from MIT. But it’s through BDSM, tantra, and somatic practice that I found what moves me at the level of my soul—guiding others into the places they’ve been told are too much, too wild, too broken. Together, we explore power, sensation, consent, and connection—not just for pleasure, but for transformation.
This work isn’t about fixing anyone. It’s about remembering who you are—underneath the shame, the stories, the scars.
That’s where I meet you.
Book a free 15-minute consult and let’s begin.
About My Work
I work at the edges—where fear, desire, and healing meet.
Through the structured, consent-based framework of BDSM, I help individuals and couples explore the unconscious patterns that shape how we love, relate, and connect. This is not about kink for kink’s sake—it’s Conscious Kink, practiced with depth, intention, and care. When talk therapy falls short, somatic practices step in—and BDSM, done right, is one of the most potent somatic tools I know.
Blending trauma-informed care with deep embodiment, I guide clients through practices that use power exchange, sensation play, and structured scenes not just for pleasure, but for healing. We work to rewrite old narratives, reclaim agency, and reintegrate the fragmented parts of the self. Shame becomes art. Control becomes liberation. Pleasure becomes medicine.
With advanced training in BDSM, tantra, somatic therapy, and trauma healing—backed by a Ph.D. from MIT—I bring both scientific rigor and deep personal devotion to this work. It’s not just professional. It’s personal.
If you're ready to explore the parts of yourself that have been waiting to be seen, felt, and fully owned.
Book a free -minute consult and let’s begin.